I can visualize the moon. If I say the word "moon," and you get a picture of the moon in your mind - or some such thing - then I feel like we're on the same page. But I can't visualize "infinity," or when I do it turns out as above. If I say the word "infinity" and you visualize (or taste, or whatever) something similar, I feel like we've communicated, but then you would agree with my first line in the above post. Since you don't agree, when I say "infinity," you must get some very different representation in your mind. Does it do the concept any more justice that my representations? If so, please tell me how to experience it.
We refer to things with signs. The signs don't have to be visual representations. We can think about things by employing the signs which refer to them. What makes the sign for (say) countable infinity refer to it is the way that the sign is used in a mathematical theory (countable infinity being a mathematical concept). Learn the math, and you will learn the concept.
Compare to this: you probably cannot visualize the number 845,264,087,843,113. You can of course visualize the sign I just now wrote for it, but you cannot visualize the number itself (by, for ...
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In the latest Rationality Quotes thread, CronoDAS quoted Paul Graham: