Alicorn comments on Can self-help be bad for you? - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Alicorn 07 July 2009 09:20:15PM 8 points [-]

What has always puzzled me about statements about self-esteem is that it's never seemed, in my case, to be remotely consistent over time. My self-esteem fluctuates wildly depending on the statements of others, my apparently random moods, my physical health, my stress levels, and what I had for breakfast. If the study is right, does that mean I should tell myself nice things when I've just gotten a compliment and feel pretty happy and don't have a cold or too much work and I just ate a stack of pancakes? Or will those statements backfire on me the next time I get a poor grade on a paper or too much work for my energy level?

Comment author: CronoDAS 08 July 2009 02:28:38AM 3 points [-]

What has always puzzled me about statements about self-esteem is that it's never seemed, in my case, to be remotely consistent over time.

Same here... I seem to believe that I'm both a genius and an idiot, that I'm both good at Magic and bad at Magic, and many other such apparent contradictions.