Probably not.

(It might be worth noting that people often do talk this way about other classes of people. Employer-employee relations tend to be treated similarly; "How to get a job" discussion is as often as impersonal as "how to get laid" discussion. It's still a bigger problem when the topic is the sexual favors of women with conventionally attractive bodies, though.)

(You might want to ignore the preceding comment. I just feel compelled to nitpick everything I can. Assume good faith, and all that.)