Tiiba comments on Of Exclusionary Speech and Gender Politics - Less Wrong

62 Post author: Eliezer_Yudkowsky 21 July 2009 07:22AM

You are viewing a comment permalink. View the original post to see all comments and the full post content.

Comments (647)

You are viewing a single comment's thread.

Comment author: Tiiba 22 July 2009 06:14:23AM 4 points [-]

I just can't get over the fact that there is an active discussion of professional Casanovas on a blog for hardcore pocket-protecting nerds. And from this discussion, it also seems that these Casanovas form a thriving community, like makers of miniature cars.

I can sort of see how a woman might find such a thing just a tad creepy. Like sleeping with a spy.

Comment author: Psychohistorian 22 July 2009 06:38:28AM 6 points [-]

I just can't get over the fact that there is an active discussion of professional Casanovas on a blog for hardcore pocket-protecting nerds.

Methinks you underestimate the diversity of the readership here. Or, at the very least, you underestimate the diversity of people who can be described as hardcore pocket-protecting nerds.

Comment author: Jonathan_Graehl 22 July 2009 10:06:36PM *  0 points [-]

Facebook says otherwise :)

Comment author: nerfhammer 22 July 2009 09:08:50PM 9 points [-]

I can sort of see how a woman might find such a thing just a tad creepy.

In many cases perhaps the appropriate action would be raise this woman's consciousness: men's sexuality isn't necessarily scary or threatening.

Comment author: Jonathan_Graehl 22 July 2009 10:15:06PM 1 point [-]

I also see the amusement value of the fact that there is a semi-cultish PUA subcommunity. It reminds me of people who regularly spend significant money attending real-estate conventions to receive advice on how to make big deals, yet have never made a deal in their life and possibly never will (this comes from a friend who has purchased, rented, and sold real estate, and thought to get some value out of said conventions).

However, I hope your "just can't get over the fact" is for dramatic effect, because you really do need to accept the reality: they're rational, except they're suspiciously easily convinced that they really could be getting all the sex they want.