therufs comments on The Nature of Offense - Less Wrong
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Many people are apparently offended when someone uses forbidden language, even when not directed against any person. If I make a mistake and exclaim "Shit!" someone may be offended, but what does it have to do with status? Posters haven't adequately tested this theory againt apparent counterexamples.
That you feel free to exclaim in front of others may be taken to mean that you aren't sufficiently respectful of their status to restrain yourself.
I wonder whether more people who are offended by such outbursts are guessers.