Alicorn comments on Experiential Pica - Less Wrong

80 Post author: Alicorn 16 August 2009 09:23PM

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Comment author: Alicorn 17 August 2009 04:39:20PM 17 points [-]

Bake an enormous batch of cookies. Knock on your neighbors' door, tell them you're never going to be able to eat all of these cookies, and ask them if they want some. Repeat until this turns into a conversation or you run out of cookies.

Comment author: CronoDAS 17 August 2009 09:59:07PM 3 points [-]

That would probably work, if I did it.

On the other hand, that would mean parting with delicious, delicious cookies! I couldn't do that! ;)

And my neighbors probably wouldn't appreciate being woken up at four in the morning, either. :(

Indeed, "being lonely" is something I should be able to fix. There are lots of people I used to know that I could get in touch with, and at least one lives pretty close by and has said I can drop in any evening I want. It's just so hard to get off the computer...

Comment author: MBlume 18 August 2009 02:26:27AM 4 points [-]

On the other hand, that would mean parting with delicious, delicious cookies! I couldn't do that! ;)

Define "enormous" to mean "far more than you could possibly eat".

Comment author: Aurini 22 August 2009 06:29:41PM 3 points [-]

We're talking about cookies. By the time the second batch is done, your appetite will have returned!

(This is why I never make too much mashed potatoes - instead of refrigerating, I just sit there trying to eat it all.)

Comment author: MBlume 25 August 2009 03:54:33AM 0 points [-]
Comment author: Kaj_Sotala 18 August 2009 05:13:02PM 3 points [-]

Assuming the person in question uses e-mail or instant message clients or whatever, you don't need to get off the computer in order to tell him you'll be dropping by. It's much easier to get up once you have an actual time limit you need to meet in order to avoid being late.

Comment author: FrankAdamek 18 August 2009 02:48:14PM 1 point [-]

If you believe that you spend that time on the computer because you're lonely, this would seem to be a prime example of "experiential pica". If I were you my hesitation would probably be inertia, feeling like it would be odd to just stop in even if they left that offer open. In which case, perhaps you ought to will yourself to do it a first time so that it becomes more normal. You have little to lose, presumably.