I think I'm going to defy all expectation and say: I agree with Alicorn completely on this. (I would have responded directly to Alicorn, but she had told me to leave her alone, and considering the topic, and my position, that would be WAY too much irony.)

I think this trope seriously hinders anti-rape efforts. I'd go into more detail, but given the topic, pretty much anything can be read out of context, so it's best to leave it at that.