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Comment author: eirenicon 03 October 2009 02:30:21PM 4 points [-]

Alicorn is right about the Na, but what I actually had in mind was modern Western culture, in which marriage is declining and trending toward obsolescence. There are other correlations that can be drawn - for example, atheists have much lower marriage rates than average. Speaking from personal experience, the majority of my personal acquaintances (a majority of which are female) are uninterested in marriage.

Comment author: rwallace 04 October 2009 12:26:14AM 3 points [-]

True, but it remains to be seen whether post-marriage Western culture will have enough longevity to be reasonably classified as a culture rather than a brief transition from one semi-stable state to another -- of your female acquaintances who are uninterested in marriage, how many are interested in having children?

Comment author: Alicorn 03 October 2009 03:31:01PM 3 points [-]

I wonder if it's possible to explain low atheist marriage rates through contingent factors? e.g. the conjunction of a low female/male ratio and a desire to marry only other atheists; a disproportionate number of out gay people in conjunction with the widespread illegality of gay marriage, etc. As for general low interest in marriage, my suspicion is that it's something like a snowball effect from the high divorce rate. People typically model their relationships after their parents', and if their parents are divorced or never married or had an unsatisfactory marriage, there's no good model there. It's probably not a coincidence that I eventually want to get married and stay that way and have a couple of kids when that's exactly what my parents did.