Alicorn comments on 'oy, girls on lw, want to get together some time?' - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Alicorn 03 October 2009 03:57:38PM 4 points [-]

Except the lesbians, who may have some trouble.

Comment author: cousin_it 05 October 2009 01:43:41PM *  6 points [-]

Why would lesbians have trouble? Their pool of partners is small, but so is their pool of competitors. It's nothing like the situation that men face in a mostly male community.

Comment author: Alicorn 05 October 2009 01:55:21PM 8 points [-]

With gay people, all possible partners are also possible competitors. Therefore, a larger pool can only be better because there is a higher chance of someone being appealing at all. By your logic having exactly two lesbians would be ideal, because no one could compete with them; but without the dumbest of dumb luck, they'd be poorly suited to each other.

Comment author: Eliezer_Yudkowsky 07 October 2009 11:00:23PM 5 points [-]

The variance grows more slowly than the number, so the largeness of the pool probably doesn't make much of a difference above a lower bound. 10,000 lesbians are probably in less dating trouble than 1,000,000 men competing for 900,000 women. I could be wrong.

Comment author: thomblake 07 October 2009 11:08:09PM 6 points [-]

1,000,000 men competing for 900,000 women

In many animal populations, unbalanced gender ratios leads to higher incidence of homosexuality. I wouldn't be surprised if that happens to humans in similar circumstances.

It is, anyway, a plausible explanation for the "lesbian until graduation" phenomenon, which occurs on (typically female-dominated) college campuses.

Comment author: cousin_it 05 October 2009 02:00:50PM *  2 points [-]

I'm not sure where you disagree with me. N possible partners = N possible competitors sounds just like the typical situation of heterosexuals, no special trouble in sight. Are you maybe too accustomed to being a female in a mostly-male community? From that vantage point it does seem that lesbians are in trouble.

Comment author: Jonathan_Graehl 06 October 2009 01:31:07AM 0 points [-]

Nice save ;)

Comment author: Larks 03 October 2009 04:04:16PM 2 points [-]

touché. And the gay men, who have yet another situation.