Psychohistorian comments on The First Step is to Admit That You Have a Problem - Less Wrong

53 Post author: Alicorn 06 October 2009 08:59PM

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Comment author: Psychohistorian 07 October 2009 09:55:52PM *  0 points [-]

Whoops, misread that and focused on a point that wasn't there. Thought RK's comment expressed a sentiment that it did not actually express, or at least expressed only very mildly.

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African nations could all develop well-functioning, corruption-free constitutional democracies, if only people took responsibility for their actions.

You see how this attitude is, perhaps, less than constructive? I'm willing to bet that what works for you isn't working for a lot of other people; a solution existing doesn't help people who can't employ that solution. Until employing that solution is a task, and not a problem, there's progress to be made.

Comment author: RichardKennaway 07 October 2009 10:23:34PM *  2 points [-]

African nations could all develop well-functioning, corruption-free constitutional democracies, if only people took responsibility for their actions.

I don't accept this analogy. It would take a large number of people acting together to change the African situation. One person acting on their own can do little. But SilasBarta's desire for an active social life only requires action by him. The problem, as he describes it, is that he does not know what to do, that what he has done so far has failed, sometimes catastrophically. But nobody is stealing women from him. Nobody is preventing him doing whatever it is that will work, should he ever discover what that is (although depending on the scale of past catastrophes, he might have to emigrate to another continent to start over). Nobody is to blame.

I'm willing to bet that what works for you

I have been single for all of my 54 years. Make of that what you will.