thomblake comments on Let them eat cake: Interpersonal Problems vs Tasks - Less Wrong

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Comment author: thomblake 13 October 2009 11:58:36PM 8 points [-]

The reason bars bore you, is probably that you lack the social skills.

That seems like an odd hypothesis. "Bored" is not how I describe my emotional state when I'm engaging in some activity for which I lack skill.

For my part, I find bars boring because there's nothing entertaining to do there. I don't even see how people have interesting social interactions in them; most bars I've been to have been very loud, and the people have been drinking excessively, such that one cannot even have an interesting conversation. But then, my hearing is terrible in loud places, so YMMV.

Comment author: ChristianKl 29 October 2009 09:59:31AM *  0 points [-]

If you lack good social skills the amount you talk while you are in bars is lower than it would be if you have good skills. If you talk less there's more time to be bored.

If you dance more you are also less likely to be bored.