Emile comments on Our House, My Rules - Less Wrong

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Comment author: wedrifid 02 November 2009 10:01:09AM 8 points [-]

I more or less agree with you. But just for the sake of the exercise:

They can't vote.

I'd let them vote. It isn't going to make the decision making process all that much less rational.

They can't sign contracts.

An interesting one. I'd almost appreciate paternalism on that one. Contracts are more useful for the party with the power to see them enforced.

They can't serve on a jury.

Innocent until the jury finds out they're missing the Simpsons by dragging things out! (Just how different is that to current practice?)

They are restricted in the ways they can earn an income. Even if they do earn an income, it is rarely enough to be self-sufficient

Being incapable of producing significant economic value isn't 'oppression'. The obligation of parents to support the economically weak is more credibly a violation of liberties here.

The most obvious restriction on the ways children can earn an income, the one cutting the most value from their income earning potential is of course child prostitution prohibitions.

and they have limited ability to control how the money is spent.

Yeah, that sucks.

They can't consent to sexual relations.

That's seriously harsh. Not just the parents but the law deciding when you're allowed to have sex? No surprise that teenager's gain a reputation for rebelliousness.

They can't purchase certain legal substances.

Don't even get me started on the legality of substance purchases. They treat the rest of the population like children and the children even worse!

They can't hold political office.

That would be a pleasant change.

They can't drive cars.

While we're at it, I just read that there is a new law here that children under 8 must be booster seats whenever in the car, for safety purposes. I hope at least that rule stays if the driving age limit is lifted! More seriously, a skill based regulation replacing the age one could be ok.

They can't travel freely, instead needing permission from someone else.

Permission sucks.

They can't direct their own education.

Another pet peeve. I did a postgraduate degree in teaching and have been left with an altogether cynical view of the entire system. I consider the whole thing blatant abuse. I would quite seriously prefer intermittent beatings by my parents.

They can be forced to attend religious services against their will.

School. Religious services. Very little difference from what I can see.

They can't control their own medical treatment, and can be forced to take psychoactive medications against their will.

That one is scary. I don't trust either parents or the pharmaceutical industry to make that sort of judgement.

They can't choose where to live.

Well, 'My House, My Rules' makes a certain amount of sense in this case.

They can have their genitals modified without their consent.

OUCH! That's serious oppression.

Comment author: Emile 02 November 2009 01:25:16PM 2 points [-]

They can't control their own medical treatment, and can be forced to take psychoactive medications against their will.

That one is scary. I don't trust either parents or the pharmaceutical industry to make that sort of judgement.

Who would you trust ? The state ? The child himself ? I don't think either of those would make better choices than the parents.

It sucks when parents make bad decisions about their children's medication, but I don't see any easy way out of that. Better information for the parents could help some cases.

Comment author: wedrifid 02 November 2009 02:05:14PM 4 points [-]

Who would you trust ? The child himself?

Myself as a child, absolutely.

In those rare cases child-wedrifid rejected the will of authorities he had a damn good reason to. If he was (counterfactually) forced to take psychoactive medications against his will it suggests that neither the parents nor the doctor were able to supply any semi-plausible evidence that the medication would benefit him. I would trust his judgement and denounce the coercion.

Comment author: Emile 02 November 2009 02:26:18PM 3 points [-]

Among cases where parents and their child disagree as to whether the child should take psychoactive medication, do you think that there are more where the child is right, or more where the parents are right ? ("right" meaning more or less "better for the long term health and happiness of the child)

Comment author: wedrifid 02 November 2009 02:43:57PM 3 points [-]

Among cases where parents and their child disagree as to whether the child should take psychoactive medication, do you think that there are more where the child is right, or more where the parents are right ? ("right" meaning more or less "better for the long term health and happiness of the child)

An answer to this question would be more a comment on the efficacy of popular pharmaceutical interventions than a comment on human judgement.

More generally, I do not consider the possible stupidity of other people to be a good justification for the abuse (pharmaceutical or otherwise) of me, or people like me. I feel absolutely no obligation to support mores that would be bad for me or an entire class of people that I empathise with.

Comment author: Emile 02 November 2009 03:19:37PM 4 points [-]

I feel absolutely no obligation to support mores that would be bad for me or an entire class of people that I empathise with.

But how do you know that giving the children (instead of the parents) the last word on whether or not they take psychoactive medications will actualy result in better results for the children ?

Or is it that you only emphathise with smart children, not with stupid children ?

I'm not convinced that the policy you propose (children get the last word) will result in the result you describe (it will be better for the children), or I'm misunderstanding you.

Comment author: wedrifid 02 November 2009 04:01:36PM 2 points [-]

I'm not convinced that the policy you propose

I haven't made a proposal. I've made a statement about who I trust and also rejected 'best for a particular majority group' as a reason that I should personally support a specific brand of coercion.

(children get the last word)

This is different from 'parents can force a child to take psychoactive medications against their will'. In the latter case may be tempted to assign policy for at what age this 'parental right' expires. It would be less than 17. It would also apply to a far smaller set of situations than that for which psychoactive medication may legally be offered or recommended to or by the parents.

Comment author: DanArmak 02 November 2009 05:57:56PM *  3 points [-]

Or is it that you only emphathise with smart children, not with stupid children ?

Yes. Certainly. For the sake of argument, why would anyone do otherwise?