I'm probably non-average, but I'm ambivalent about hearing "we need more girls" from any community that's generally interesting. The first question that I think of is "why don't they have any?", but as long as it's not obvious to me why there are not presently enough girls had by a website and it's easy to leave if I find a compelling reason later, my obliging nature would be likely to take over. Also, saying "we need more girls" does advertise the lack of girls - but it also advertises the recognition that maybe that's not a splendid thing. Not saying it at all might signify some kind of attempt at gender-blindness, but it could also signify complacency about the ungirly ratio extant.
I hear "we need more girls" from my female classmates about our philosophy department.
We also hear this kind of thing online, in the atheism community.
To sum up the convo, then, it seems like:
the "too many dicks on the dance floor" attitude isn't particularly attractive, but
the honest admission that there aren't many female regulars, and that we'd like the input of women on the issues which we care about, is perfectly valid.
The rest of it is our differing levels of charity in interpreting CannibalSmith's remarks.
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