Thank you for your responses, but I guess my question wasn't clear. I was asking about purpose. If there's no point in going to Dallas, why care about wanting to go to Dallas?
This is my problem if there's no objective value (that I tried to address more directly here). If there's no value to anything I might want, why care about what I want, much less strive for what I want?
I don't know if there's anything to be done. Whining about it is pointless. If anyone has a constructive direction, please let me know. I picked up a Sartre's , "Truth and Existence" rather randomly, maybe it will lead in a different (hopefully more interesting) direction.
I second the comments above. The answer Alicorn and Furcas give sounds really shallow compared to a Framework Of Objective Value; but when I become convinced that there really is no FOOV, I was relieved to find that I still, you know, wanted things, and these included not just self-serving wants, but things like "I want my friends and family to be happy, even in circumstances where I couldn't share or even know of their happiness", and "I want the world to become (for example) more rational, less violent, and happier, even if I wouldn't be ...
ITT we talk about whatever.