Morendil comments on A Suite of Pragmatic Considerations in Favor of Niceness - Less Wrong
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We can taboo "nice", and say instead "thinking about how my comment will make people feel, and revising it before I post it if the tone seems antagonistic or otherwise likely to distract from the underlying point".
The salient features are: a) thinking about feelings and b) acknowledging that form matters as well as content.
Your comment is a good example of "nice". You said you interpreted "nice" in such a way that you didn't get much from Alicorn's post, but you said that with some regard for her feelings. Let me attempt to rephrase it in a "mean" tone, attempting to preserve the content, and please tell me if the difference is apparent:
Instead of tabooing a perfectly good word, how about we just agree to define "nice" as "thinking about how my comment will make people feel, and revising it before I post it if the tone seems antagonistic or otherwise likely to distract from the underlying point"?
Taboo in this sense, I think.
I meant taboo in that sense, yes.
Erm, I see. Sorry :-)