Alicorn comments on A Suite of Pragmatic Considerations in Favor of Niceness - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Alicorn 07 January 2010 01:44:23AM *  7 points [-]

Some hypotheses (I suspect actual cases of meanness are more complex than any of these):

  • It signals power and a lack of fear of repercussions (both to the person one is being mean to and to witnesses).

  • It is efficient at achieving certain results, like making people for whom the interaction is optional go away.

  • It can serve aesthetic or intellectual purposes, especially in the form of things like sarcasm.

  • It is sometimes employed as a defense mechanism to prevent unwanted closeness with others.