That is not my sense of how the gay-rights movement succeeded at all. As I see it, they did it by gaining the sympathy of enough of the right people. This, in turn, they did by making their humanity evident. And this they did by having high-status, sympathetic representatives.

Now, once your group is already high-status, you can use scorn to squelch opposition. If you're high-status, people will want to affiliate with you, and they'll read your scorn as a signal that they can affiliate with you by helping to squelch your opposition.

This may be true, but I don't think the gay movement waited to start expressing their scorn for homophobia until after they were high status. Are you saying that before the gay movement was high status, most of its representatives acted like homophobia was simply an opinion with which they disagreed, but which they respected nonetheless?

My impression is that portraying homophobia as something contemptible played an important part in obtaining this high status. Hell, just coming up with the word 'homophobia' (which was brilliant) helped a lot, and that was done a few decades ago.

Anyway, there's another reason why treating religious beliefs like they're crazy is a good thing: Religious beliefs are, indeed, crazy. I don't see how this fact can ever be acknowledged by the rest of humanity if no one actually acts like it's true, even those who accept it!