I don't think that people usually appreciate just how difficult it is to try to hack into somebody's mind and change it like that.
FTFY. ;-)
Seriously, it's hard to change your own mind even when you want with all your heart to do so. Dark arts don't persuade anybody of anything they don't already find attractive to believe. (i.e., things that humans are already biased towards thinking are true or useful)
Successful direct marketers advise that you only advertise to people who already want what you're selling and are inclined to believe you, for this very reason.
(And if anybody had incentive to develop truly "creepy" levels of persuasion capability, it'd be direct marketers, who can make millions more by increasing their persuasiveness a few percentage points.)
In some circumstances, it can be hard to change people's minds. In others, it can be way too easy. For example, look at bullying in schools: a large number of people somehow come to agree on bullying a certain set of targets, even when they probably would never be so cruel on their own. Or look at political propaganda, when given by a trusted source and decked out in applause-lights-inducing standard rhetoric -- preaching a slightly new message to the choir. In both cases, the people being persuaded just weren't adequately defending themselves from the inf...
The product of Less Wrong is truth. However, there seems to be a reluctance of the personality types here - myself included - to sell that product. Here's my evidence:
We actually label many highly effective persuasive strategies that can be used to market our true ideas as "dark arts". What's the justification for this negative branding? A necessary evil is not evil. Even if - and this is a huge if - our future utopia is free of dark arts, that's not the world we live in today. Choosing not to use them is analogous to a peacenik wanting to rid the world of violence by suggesting that police not use weapons.
We treat our dislike of dark arts as if it's a simple corollary of the axiom of the virtue of truth. Does this mean we assume the ends (more people believe the truth) doesn't justify the means (persuasion to the truth via exploiting cognitive biases)? Or are we just worried about being hypocrites? Whatever the reason, such an impactful assumption deserves an explanation. Speaking practically, the successful practice of dark arts requires the psychological skill of switching hats, to use Edward de Bono's terminology. While posting on Less Wrong, we can avoid and are in fact praised for avoiding dark arts, but we need to switch up in other environments, and that's difficult. Frankly, we're not great at it, and it's very tempting to externalize the problem and say "the art is bad" rather than "we're bad at the art".
Our distaste for rhetorical tactics, both aesthetically and morally, profoundly affects the way we communicate. That distaste is tightly coupled with the mental habit of always interpreting the value of what is said purely for its informational content, logical consistency, and insight. I'm basing the following question on my own introspection, but I wonder if this almost religiously entrenched mental habit could make us blind to the value of the art of persuasion? Let's imagine for a moment, the most convincing paragraph ever written. It was truly a world-wonder of persuasion - it converted fundamentalist Christians into atheists, suicide bombers into diplomats, and Ann Coulter-4-President supporters into Less Wrong sycophants. What would your reaction to the paragraph be? Would you "up-vote" this work of genius? No way. We'd be competing to tell the fundamentalist Christian that there were at least three argument fallacies in the first sentence, we'd explain to the suicide bomber that the rhetoric could be used equally well to justify blowing us all up right now, and for completeness we'd give the Ann Coulter supporter a brief overview of Bayesianism.