Cognitive psych is ovbiously important to people here, so I want to point out a CogSci book thread over from reddit/r/cogsci.
http://www.reddit.com/r/cogsci/comments/bmbaq/dear_rcogsci_lets_construct_a_musthave_library_of/
I would be interested in an extension of this thread here, since LW has somewhat more computational theory of mind slant.
I'll have to echo the recommendation for for Pinker's How the Mind Works. It's 600+ pages, but not a word wasted (until you get to the chapter on art...meh). I was planning to write a review for LW.
The best summary is that it competes with Drescher's Good and Real for the title of "LW in book form", except that it doesn't talk about quantum mechanics (except for a few paragraphs). But it does tie together all of the discussions you see here of the various biases at work, game theory, impact of evolutionary history on the mind, and reductionist accounts of cognitive function (with a particular emphasis on vision and its problem of extracting 3D data from a 2D image by using cues from light gradient, line orientation, etc.).
Having seen the thread, I'll have to check out Fodor's reply book (The Mind Doesn't Work Like That).
How the mind works is also available in Audio. I found that very helpful.