NancyLebovitz comments on Eight Short Studies On Excuses - Less Wrong

210 Post author: Yvain 20 April 2010 11:01PM

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Comment author: Rain 22 April 2010 10:43:12PM *  0 points [-]

It may be negative utility since requesting explicit and clear statements are against social norms and can be taken as implicit accusations of ignorance or incompetence.

Taking things literally and lacking the ability to determine hidden or assumed social meanings is a low status trait, showing that you can be easily tricked, are easy to ridicule in a public fashion without reprisal, etc. Or maybe that's just me.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 22 April 2010 11:37:20PM 2 points [-]

No, I agree that there's a risk to asking questions in some social circles, and it may not even be obvious which social circles they are.

I believe we are making the world a little with our interactions, and it's sometimes worth trying to bend the world in our preferred direction.