CuSithBell comments on On Enjoying Disagreeable Company - Less Wrong

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Comment author: CuSithBell 22 April 2012 05:32:22PM 0 points [-]

All of this strikes me as sufficient evidence to conclude that there is a good chance (P ~ 60%?) that he is actually a sociopath, in which case learning to like him is exactly the wrong thing to do.

If this person is not "actually a sociopath", would learning to like him be the right thing to do?

Comment author: pnrjulius 23 April 2012 04:21:24PM 0 points [-]

Yes, if he's not actually a sociopath, it's probably worth learning to like him.

But the odds of him being a sociopath are high enough that the expected utility doesn't point that way at all. The disutility of being exploited by a sociopath is far worse than the opportunity cost of not liking this one person.

Comment author: CuSithBell 23 April 2012 04:47:12PM 0 points [-]

It sounds like the reason you'd want to not like him if he's a sociopath is that then he'd probably exploit you - but don't you already know that he'll exploit you anyway?