SilasBarta comments on How to always have interesting conversations - Less Wrong

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Comment author: SilasBarta 15 June 2010 06:42:34PM 10 points [-]

Sorry, you're right -- I'm speaking out of frustration regarding a) people's inability to explain (remember my upcoming article), and b) the past instances of let-them-eat-cake sociality advice. Vive-ut-Vivas isn't the first extrovert to do so here, and she won't be the last. I will try to be more productive with future replies.

Comment author: Vive-ut-Vivas 15 June 2010 06:51:34PM 12 points [-]

I understand your frustration. I should have made it clear that I wasn't attempting to help people who are trying to get to the barrier of making small talk in the first place; I was directing my advice to those who are interested in making the transition from small talk to interesting conversation. You're right that I haven't been particularly helpful in addressing that first point. I think that with some reflection I might be able to give decent advice on that topic, but that will require more introspection.

Comment author: SilasBarta 15 June 2010 07:12:55PM 6 points [-]

I haven't been particularly helpful in addressing that first point. I think that with some reflection I might be able to give decent advice on that topic, but that will require more introspection.

I appreciate your saying this very much.