AnlamK comments on How to always have interesting conversations - Less Wrong

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Comment author: AnlamK 16 June 2010 07:18:06AM 2 points [-]

I don't know. I am hesitant.

I can think of instances in which someone has started talking about an anecdote and the other person wasn't really responsive at all. (And, yeah, more than anything it was I who were telling the anecdote.) I guess it requires social savvy to pick which anecdote to tell.

I don't think engaging someone meaningfully (i.e. "hooking") in a conversation is as easy as making more statements as opposed to asking questions.

Conversation is more of an art than an exact science - 'tis true...

Anybody wants to call me so they can hear my totally irrelevant anecdote?

Comment author: HughRistik 16 June 2010 11:18:39PM *  3 points [-]

AnlamK

I can think of instances in which someone has started talking about an anecdote and the other person wasn't really responsive at all. (And, yeah, more than anything it was I who were telling the anecdote.) I guess it requires social savvy to pick which anecdote to tell.

Exactly.

I don't think engaging someone meaningfully (i.e. "hooking") in a conversation is as easy as making more statements as opposed to asking questions.

I agree. But you can make more statements in a short period of time than you can ask questions, so you have a higher chance of hitting something that engages the other person before they tire of the conversation.

Does that seem plausible/implausible?

Comment author: Raoul589 09 July 2013 04:05:19PM 2 points [-]

Dammit, I wanted to hear the anecdote.