LucasSloan comments on How to always have interesting conversations - Less Wrong
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I find that meta-conversation can make a good default for small talk in the absence of inspiration to talk about anything else in particular, but that has the disadvantage of seeming a bit strange when talking to people you do not know very well, which is the situation in which the problem is most likely to arise in the first place.
Meta-conversation works as a default if and only if both (all) parties to the conversation want to be talking. It doesn't help if you're trying to have a conversation with someone who you just walked up to or whatever.