There has not yet been a truly benevolent dictator and it would be delusional at best to believe that you will be the first.
This is true approximately to the extent that there has never been a truly benevolent person. Power anti-corrupts.
In favor of the "power just allows corrupt behavior" theory, Bueno de Mesquita offers two very nice examples of people who ruled two different states. One is Leopold of Belgium, who simultaneously ruled Belgium and the Congo. The other is Chiang Kai-shek, who sequentially ruled China and Taiwan, allegedly rather differently. (I heard him speak about these examples in this podcast. BdM, Morrow, Silverson, and Smith wrote about Leopold here, gated)
A few examples (in approximately increasing order of controversy):
If you proceed anyway...