This post is seeing some pretty heavy downvoting, but the opinions I'm seeing in the comments so far seem to be more mixed; I suppose this isn't unusual.
I have a question, then, for people who downvoted this post: what specifically did you dislike about it? This is a data-gathering exercise that will hopefully allow me to identify flaws in my writing and/or thinking and then correct them. Was the argument being made just obviously wrong? Was it insufficiently justified? Did my examples suck? Were there rhetorical tactics that you particularly disliked? Was it structured badly? Are you incredibly annoyed by the formatting errors I can't figure out how to fix?
Those are broadly the sorts of answers I'm looking for. I am specifically not looking for justifications for downvotes; really, all I want is your help in becoming stronger. With luck, I will be able to waste less of your time in the future.
Thanks.
I've just identified something else that was nagging at me about this post: the irony of the author of this post making an argument that closely parallels an argument some thoughtful conservatives make against condoning alternative lifestyles like polyamory.
The essence of that argument is that humans are not sufficiently intelligent, rational or self-controlled to deal with the freedom to pursue their own happiness without the structure and limits imposed by evolved cultural and social norms that keep their baser instincts in check. That cultural norms e...
A few examples (in approximately increasing order of controversy):
If you proceed anyway...