It's obvious that we sometimes should keep secrets. Sometimes more harm than good would result if someone else knew something that we know.
I believe some other people's reports that there are things they would prefer not to know and would be inclined to honor their preference if I knew such a secret but I can't think of any examples of such secrets for myself. In almost all cases I can think of I would want to be informed of any true information that was being withheld from me. The only possible exceptions are 'pleasant surprises' that are being kept secret on a strictly time-limited basis to enhance enjoyment (surprise gifts, parties, etc.) but I think these are not really what we're talking about.
I can certainly think of many examples of secrets that people keep secret out of self-interest and attempt to justify by claiming they are doing it in the best interests of the ignorant party. In most such cases the 'more harm than good' would accrue to the party requesting the keeping of the secret rather than the party from whom the secret is being withheld. Sometimes keeping such secrets might be the 'right thing' morally (the Nazi at the door looking for fugitives) but this is not because you are acting in the interests of the party from whom you are keeping information.
In almost all cases I can think of I would want to be informed of any true information that was being withheld from me.
Maybe this is an example:
I was once working hard to meet a deadline. Then I saw in my e-mail that I'd just received the referee reports for a journal article that I'd submitted. Even when a referee report recommends acceptance, it will almost always request changes, however minor. I knew that if I looked at the reports, I would feel a very strong pull to work on whatever was in them, which would probably take at least several hours. ...
A few examples (in approximately increasing order of controversy):
If you proceed anyway...