While there are some superficial parallels, I don't think the two cases are actually very similar.
Humans don't have a polyamory-bias; if the scientific consensus on neurotransmitters like oxytocin and vasopressin is accurate, it's quite the opposite. Deliberate action in defiance of bias is not dangerous. There's no back door for evolution to exploit.
This just seems unreasoned to me.
A few examples (in approximately increasing order of controversy):
If you proceed anyway...