I can only say that like all human beings I regularly fail to adhere to my own moral standards, and that this does not make those standards worthless.
If following your moral standards is impractical, maybe those standards aren't quite right in the first place.
It is a common mistake for idealists to choose their morality without reference to practical realities. A better search plan would be to find all the practical options, and then pick whichever of those is the most moral.
If you spare women you meet from discussion of sports (or insert whatever interest you have that exhibits average sex differences) until she expresses interest in the subject, you have not failed any reasonable moral standards.
It is a common mistake for idealists to choose their morality without reference to practical realities. A better search plan would be to find all the practical options, and then pick whichever of those is the most moral.
Most moral by what standard? You're just passing the buck here.
A few examples (in approximately increasing order of controversy):
If you proceed anyway...