Erm, how so?
It occurs to me that I should clarify that when I said
Deliberate action in defiance of bias is not dangerous.
I meant that it is not dangerous thinking of the sort I have attempted to describe.
Maybe I just don't see the distinction or the argument that you are making, but I still don't. Do you really think that thinking about polyamory isn't likely to impact values somewhat relative to unquestioned monogamy?
A few examples (in approximately increasing order of controversy):
If you proceed anyway...