Maybe I just don't see the distinction or the argument that you are making, but I still don't. Do you really think that thinking about polyamory isn't likely to impact values somewhat relative to unquestioned monogamy?
Oh, it's quite likely to impact values. But it won't impact your values without some accompanying level of conscious awareness. It's unconscious value shifts that the post is concerned about.
A few examples (in approximately increasing order of controversy):
If you proceed anyway...