It's important to distinguish changes in values, from updating of knowledge about values in response to moral arguments. The latter emphatically shouldn't be opposed, otherwise you turn morally stupid.
That sounds like it would be isomorphic to always encouraging the updating of instrumental values, but not terminal ones, which strikes me as an unquestionably good idea in all cases where stupidity is not a terminal value.
A few examples (in approximately increasing order of controversy):
If you proceed anyway...