Wei_Dai comments on Open Thread, August 2010 - Less Wrong
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Books are not enough. Smart kids are lonely. Get him into a good school (or other community) where he won't be the smartest one. That happened to me at 11 when I was accepted into Russia's best math school and for the first time in my life I met other people worth talking to, people who actually thought before saying words. Suddenly, to regain my usual position of the smart kid, I had to actually work hard. It was very very important. I still go to school reunions every year, even though I finished it 12 years ago.
Alternatively, not having any equally smart kids to talk to will force him to read books and/or go online for interesting ideas and conversation. I don't think I had any really interesting real-life conversations until college, when I did an internship at Microsoft Research, and I'd like to think that I turned out fine.
My favorite book, BTW, is A Fire Upon the Deep. But one of the reasons I like it so much is that I was heavily into Usenet when I first read it, and I'm not sure that aspect of the book will resonate as much today. (I was determined to become a one-man Sandor Arbitration Intelligence. :)