SilasBarta comments on Experts vs. parents - Less Wrong

16 Post author: PhilGoetz 29 September 2010 04:48PM

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Comment author: [deleted] 29 September 2010 06:30:12PM *  13 points [-]

It can go the other way, too. Parents can miss a lot, simply because they're around their kids all day.

I remember being on an airplane with a mother and her toddler; the little boy was crying desperately "I wanna go to the BATHROOM!" while the mother was doing everything to calm him but taking him to the bathroom. I think, being frazzled, she must have just perceived as wordless screaming what I clearly understood as words.

Even stranger example of this: when I was about six months old, my mother made a cassette tape of my "baby talk." Years later she listened to the tape: and I wasn't babbling, I was speaking understandable words. Under the stress of caring for a small child, you don't actually notice details that are obvious to a non-parent observer.

Comment author: SilasBarta 29 September 2010 08:10:54PM 5 points [-]

Interesting. On a related note, my mom tells me that when I was little, I would ask for things with what sounded like meaningless babble, and my older brother (+2.5 yrs) would "interpret" and say things like, "Oh, he wants some water!" or "He wants his toys", and turn out to be correct!

Luckily, things are different today: people say I mumble and think I'm German :-P