RobinZ comments on Love and Rationality: Less Wrongers on OKCupid - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Relsqui 13 October 2010 07:18:07AM 1 point [-]

I'm not sure what the problem is, but the link to the OKCupid post doesn't work-- I had to use google to reread the comments.

Do you mean the link in the original post to the earlier thread? It worked for me just now. What problem did you have?

Unless I missed something, there were more favorable comments than not, and from more people.

Most of the active discussion I've seen has been about why this is hogwash and shouldn't be posted here (so I appreciate hearing another view). But I only get alerted to comments for threads I'm alread in, so my view is pretty biased.

there are a number of men on LW who found that a lot of the advice they'd been given by women about dating didn't work for them

I'm new here; did you get this impression from previous discussion, individual comments over time, or something else? If it's true, I wonder how similar the women-being-asked and women-being-pursued were (e.g. if they were discussing it with their nerdy female friends and then trying to pick women up at clubs, or vice versa). I confess that I take on a charitable view of peoples' goals in romantic pursuit, and also that my idea of "charitable" is pretty close to "assuming it agrees with me." (As it should! Would you trust someone who behaved in ways they didn't recommend?)

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 13 October 2010 09:47:53AM 1 point [-]

If I click on the rightmost link while I'm in Recent Comments, I get http://lesswrong.com/r/discussion/lw/2tw/draft_rational_dating_less_wrongers_on_okcupid/

which just says in red, "This post doesn't exist".

I tried one other post from this discussion in Recent Comments, and got the same result.

On the one hand, I do think the majority response was in favor of the post. On the other, there was a strong minority which was a good bit nastier than I'd say is usual for LW.

I got that impression from discussion here. And I've just realized that while I've seen a lot about bad dating advice from women to men, I've never seen a clear description of what that advice is. Guys?

Comment author: RobinZ 13 October 2010 12:55:30PM 0 points [-]

I have noticed that links to Rationality Quotes October in Recent Comments have the same problem for me - the problem is that the r/discussion/ somehow gets inserted between lesswrong.com/ and lw/2tw.

Comment author: komponisto 13 October 2010 05:09:59PM *  2 points [-]

Speaking of Recent Comments, are we ever going to get that thing fixed? It's been broken for something like a few weeks now. (It makes one feel like LW is "ill".)