William comments on Love and Rationality: Less Wrongers on OKCupid - Less Wrong

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Comment author: William 22 October 2010 01:41:44AM 3 points [-]

Of course, in a dating context, it's at least as important to know the answer to the Shadow Question: "What do you want?"

Comment author: AdShea 22 October 2010 02:09:01AM 2 points [-]

Depending on your philosophy on dating the Shadow Question could be more important. Lorien's First Question "Why are you here" would also be a good thing to know in reference to the dating site itself.

Comment author: taryneast 10 March 2011 10:01:15AM 0 points [-]

And sometimes you need to strip it all back to fundamentals and ask the first-ones question: "do you have anything worth living for?" Once you've figured that out, you can proceed with the other two.