Relsqui comments on Defecting by Accident - A Flaw Common to Analytical People - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Relsqui 08 December 2010 06:18:59AM 1 point [-]

In actual practice I behave the way I described; I like to think that if this were drastically counterproductive for my goals, I would have noticed by now.

At any rate, the goal under discussion was informing the other person of the error in a way that didn't result in defensiveness or aggression.

Comment author: wedrifid 08 December 2010 06:36:38AM *  1 point [-]

At any rate, the goal under discussion was informing the other person of the error in a way that didn't result in defensiveness or aggression.

I am comfortable with the relevance of my statements to the goal under discussion as described by yourself, above. I can attest to the superiority of Perplexed's approach to precisely said goal. When done well it will produce less defensiveness and aggression.

What you do personally in your life isn't a subject that I have or would comment on - I speak only to the specific context here wherein Perplexed presented a near-optimal solution.