sixes_and_sevens comments on Should we have secular churches? - Less Wrong

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Comment author: sixes_and_sevens 20 January 2011 11:52:49AM 14 points [-]

A friend of mine who moved from the very religious community she was born in to a very non-religious community overseas says the BDSM community provides the same sort of social support network that church did when she lived in the US.

There's something delicious about that.

Comment author: taw 23 January 2011 03:03:47PM 3 points [-]

I've never been too closely involved in the community but from my limited observation BSDM groups also have failures modes just as bad as religious communities.

Comment author: sixes_and_sevens 23 January 2011 03:14:34PM 2 points [-]

Are these the failure modes common to most social groups, or something special?

Comment author: JoshuaZ 23 January 2011 03:12:43PM 1 point [-]

Certainly they seem to have failure modes (not personally involved in the community but have friends who are) but I''m curious what failure modes you think are just as bad as religion. I've never for example heard anyone from such a community advocate an anti-epistemology as a fundamental community norm.

Comment author: Pavitra 08 March 2011 04:57:12AM 0 points [-]

BDSM tends to attract a higher-than-usual proportion of openly misogynistic and otherwise abusive men.

Comment author: wedrifid 20 January 2011 07:44:08PM 3 points [-]

the BDSM community provides the same sort of social support network that church did

I'm going to quote that to my religious friends if a suitably related topic comes up. :P

Comment author: SilasBarta 20 January 2011 09:55:50PM 1 point [-]

There's something delicious about that.

Yes, but it's not the stuff the dominatrices make you eat.