lukeprog comments on post proposal: Attraction and Seduction for Heterosexual Male Rationalists - Less Wrong

8 Post author: lukeprog 06 February 2011 04:43AM

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Comment author: [deleted] 06 February 2011 08:28:24AM 6 points [-]

As for programming, I apparently use that term in a weaker sense than you do. I'm aware that humans are not computers.

I'm sorry if that sounded condescending. The word "programmed" rubs me the wrong way when applied to women, specifically. Maybe because it always does seem to be the women who are "programmed"; men mostly get to be "strategists," rational actors following an evolutionary strategy. It's just a vocabulary distinction, but it's annoying when you're always cast as the sexbot rather than the strategist.

Comment author: lukeprog 06 February 2011 02:52:58PM 4 points [-]

Thanks for explaining; this did not occur to me. I haven't encountered this particular sexism or - just as likely - haven't noticed it. In my sense of "programmed", men and women are equally "programmed."

Comment author: Alexandros 07 February 2011 11:50:50PM 1 point [-]

I prefer to use the word 'optimized'. Does the job just fine, with only 1/4 of the objections!

Comment author: HumanFlesh 17 December 2012 12:47:52PM 0 points [-]

I prefer the term 'endowed' because our adaptations are often sub-optimal.