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Curiosity, analytic intelligence, emotional maturity, sex-positivity, the ability to admit to being wrong or making mistakes.
Depends strongly on the person in question and our current life-circumstances. My current girlfriend and I are quite serious, so if I start dating anyone new it would be with the intention of taking things slow for a while.
I try to spend time with my girlfriend every day. For someone new, maybe a night or two a week? Relationships vary, and I don't like forcing them into uncomfortable shapes.
Moderately. Having mutual interests to talk about is really quite nice.
I couldn't date someone who wasn't some kind of humanist. Beyond that, I'm flexible.
Anger problems, sex-negativity, controlling behavior, extreme religious or political views. I'm unusually sensitive to markers of abusive relationships, because there are some mistakes that should only be made once.