cousin_it comments on Poll: What do you look for in a relationship? - Less Wrong

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Comment author: cousin_it 10 February 2011 10:59:21AM *  3 points [-]

1: What traits are most important to you in a prospective partner?

I don't want myself to be like these girls on OKC that write long laundry lists of specific demands. People are allowed to be awesome in ways I cannot predict in advance.

2: What kind of role would you want your partner(s) to play in your life?

See 1.

3: How much time would you spend together, ideally?

Two or three days a week. I need a lot of personal time and space. Even when I'm completely head over heels in limerence, seeing the person more than three times a week feels "wrong" to me and I instinctively try to reduce it.

4: How important is it to you that you share similar tastes?

Not important.

5: How important is it that you be ideologically similar?

Not important.

6: What, if anything, are your dealbreakers?

Being controlling, frequently "depressed", or having no interests. The three often go together.