Really, you would be better off simply listening to music that you independently like, rather than spending finite resources to change your aesthetic preferences in a different arbitrary direction, and that cost is the consequence.
This assumes that the cost of finding music that appeals to one's innate preferences is lower than the cost of changing those preferences to match what's commonly available. This is not necessarily the case - in fact, I generally find it not to be. (Pandora music service's AI comes close, but it can still only play music that's actually been produced and entered into its database, and even in that case it takes a fair amount of effort to teach the AI what I like in each general category of music that I like, plus I suspect it's incapable of learning certain nuances like 'I only like this instrument when it's paired with one of these other instruments'.)
Although there may be people who never heard a piece of music that they actually liked, while still having the ability to like some music, I thought such cases are so rare that they can be disregarded. I generally dislike most of the modern music (where "modern" means something like "less than 50 years old"), and have no problem to find something which fits my preferences. In purely financial costs, non-fashionable music is probably much cheaper.
I just downloaded the latest Radiohead album, and I love it.
Thinking back, I started listening to Radiohead years ago when I found out that some of the cool kids in school were into it. With all the hype about the new album, the status/fashion processors in my brain going to ensure that I enjoy listening to it. I would probably fail a double-blind test with a bunch of imitation bands' fake "new Radiohead albums".
But I'm really enjoying listening to the album, and that doesn't seem like a bad or contradictory thing at all, even in light of the statements above. If, hypothetically, I was enjoying it for purely non-fashion reasons, then presumably that enjoyment could also be traced back though a causal chain to facts about brain development, evolutionary psychology, or whatever. But we would have no problem accepting that enjoyment as A Good Thing since explaining enjoyment does not diminish it. And so it seems in this case.