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Really? That's not at all the lesson I took away, admitting that the other characters were 'right'. Snape was quite wrong; the bullies were even more wrong. Nothing in the narrative tells us that they were 'right'.
The lesson I took away was that one shouldn't try to win in every situation, that doing so is very short-sighted, that some victories are Pyrrhic or Cadmean, that sometimes one has to let wrong people/characters go on their wrong way because the cost of correcting them is too high.
Harry, in those chapters, refuses to lose and is willing to escalate all the way to his nuclear option even when the issue doesn't merit taking such a risk. One wants to accomplish things, not destroy oneself over principles. Thinking is for doing, as the saying goes.
I guess I phrased that badly. When I'm in conflict with someone else, I don't necessarily think they're right, but I almost invariably back down. And usually I TELL them 'maybe you're right' because that pacifies people really well. I don't think this is a good strategy.