No. This

Sex Is Not the Goal. There is no goal. There is only the process: be who you are, and engage with what you encounter on that road.

described my outlook, and still does. I would have been happy to be having sex though.

And it varied; there are simply a number of people, who I spent differing amounts, some quite a lot, of time with, who in retrospect were willing to have sex with me.

Having been in the position of needing good advice, I agree with HughRistik that the advice above is mostly pretty bad unless you're the sort of person who doesn't already need the advice.