http://vimeo.com/22099396
What do people think of this, from a Bayesian perspective?
It is a talk given to the Oxford Transhumanists. Their previous speaker was Eliezer Yudkowsky. Audio version and past talks here: http://groupspaces.com/oxfordtranshumanists/pages/past-talks
Gets rid of people I won't get along with quickly instead of slowly. Filters people.
It's similar to my attitude to small talk. Small talk conventions are designed, roughly, so that people can hold polite conversations no matter how much they disagree! That's not what I want at all. I want to find out if we disagree, find out if you are interested in cooperating with the real me, and sort through many people to find the ones who can do things like respond well under pressure rather than respond well to easy smalltalk, who can deal with disagreement well or agree with me, and so on.
There were a few people I inspired to flame me. I know I provoked them. I didn't actually do anything that deserves being flamed. But I broke etiquette some. It's not a surprising result. Flaming me for some of the things I did is pretty normal. (Btw a few of the flames were deleted or edited a bit after being posted.) Some people would regard that as disaster. I regard is as success: I stopped speaking to those people. If I'd been super polite they might have pretended to have a civil discussion with me for longer while having rather irrational thoughts going through their head. The more they hide emotional reactions (for example), while actually having them, the more discussion can go wrong for unstated reasons.
edit: maybe i should add that i think exceptional individuals are more worthwhile to talk to than mediocre ones. i'd rather have one person with some exceptional traits (even if he also has some exceptionally bad traits, btw. even if his average quality isn't good) than 20 average people who don't have much variance. one really good idea matters more than all the rest.
This reliably decreases your chance of changing minds and having your own mind changed. It creates an adversarial Us vs. Them mentality which limits limits the degree to which either of you is open to the other's arguments. Perhaps it doe... (read more)