KrisC comments on Mitigating Social Awkwardness - Less Wrong

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Comment author: KrisC 01 May 2011 04:45:11AM 1 point [-]

On many occasions I get a similar reaction, most often at work. At the appropriate place in a conversation for interjection, I will start to speak. In the middle of the first syllable, I will be interrupted and the participants in the conversation will continue as if I was not about to speak.

  • Perhaps I am unheard.

  • Perhaps I am considered of lower status amongst the peer group represented.

  • Perhaps the participants predict my comment will be off topic.

  • Perhaps there is a physiological cause. Specifically, auditory processing delay. {The time span it takes your conscious mind to become aware of a noise.}

Auditory processing delay is the one I find most interesting as I have accepted the outlier social role, perhaps too well.

The role of auditory processing delay in speech, I suspect, is the initial cause of the interruption. For some time, I have been cognizant that I often reflexively react to sound before I "hear" it. Otherwise, why would I have tensed muscles when the unexpected noise occurs. The delay seems perceptible, perhaps .1 to .5 seconds by my estimation. This large a delay in a conversation may be atypical.

This paper suggests a number of symptoms of high auditory delay and traits associated with it. These also suggest that I may the one experiencing an above average auditory processing delay.