JoshuaZ comments on Rational Romantic Relationships, Part 1: Relationship Styles and Attraction Basics - Less Wrong

48 Post author: lukeprog 05 November 2011 11:06AM

You are viewing a comment permalink. View the original post to see all comments and the full post content.

Comments (1529)

You are viewing a single comment's thread. Show more comments above.

Comment author: JoshuaZ 07 November 2011 05:41:44PM 0 points [-]

If we must have these sorts of conversations could we while doing so please refrain from using terms for female genitalia as negative descriptors? Although the linked SMBC is amusing thist really doesn't help keeping things calm or help the signal to noise ratio.

Comment author: komponisto 07 November 2011 05:58:39PM *  9 points [-]

Eh? That term means "cat" to me.

EDIT: In fact, wedrifid's meaning has a different etymology from either yours or mine.

Comment author: JoshuaZ 07 November 2011 06:20:06PM 4 points [-]

Huh. Interesting. I did not realize what the etymology of that word was. The fact that it is used almost exclusively to target males rather than females suggests that there's been some etymological bleed over.

Comment author: Oligopsony 07 November 2011 06:24:21PM 7 points [-]

Huh. Interesting. I did not realize what the etymology of that word was. The fact that it is used almost exclusively to target males rather than females suggests that there's been some etymological bleed over.

And at no niggardly pace, either.

Comment author: dlthomas 07 November 2011 06:28:48PM 4 points [-]

The fact that it is used almost exclusively to target males rather than females suggests that there's been some etymological bleed over.

While I don't doubt that there has been some bleed over, I am not sure this is actually suggestive of it; typical gender roles would have "pampered" or "soft" also be seen as more negative when directed at a male, and I don't think there is any related bleeding going on there.

Comment author: Prismattic 08 November 2011 12:01:24AM 3 points [-]

Terms meaning cat have been slang for the female genitalia in more than one language, or so The Great Cat Massacre claims about "le chatte" in French, at any rate..

Comment author: wedrifid 07 November 2011 06:37:45PM 1 point [-]

Thanks, I wasn't aware of the origins of, well, any of the various usages for that word.

Comment author: wedrifid 07 November 2011 06:31:53PM 1 point [-]

If we must have these sorts of conversations

I prefer to avoid them, for approximately this reason.

Although the linked SMBC is amusing thist really doesn't help keeping things calm or help the signal to noise ratio.

Objecting to the use of unsophisticated terms is one thing - it would be pointless to argue with that. But if you are moving to a claim about "signal to noise ratio" then you are simply wrong. The signal there is extremely important.