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48 Post author: lukeprog 05 November 2011 11:06AM

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Comment author: JoachimSchipper 08 November 2011 08:17:47PM *  3 points [-]

I'm confused - you seem to take it as a given that PUA techniques are the only/best tool for pursuing the many forms of relationship mentioned in the article. I'm by no means an expert, but I'd be surprised if PUA worked as well for, say, a woman trying to extend her list of partners with a man with a shared interest in classical music. (Quickly glancing at some lists, "get out there and meet people" seems to be good advice; but quickly approaching lots of partners may not work well in this case.)

Isn't it possible that the broader scope of this article justifies de-emphasizing pickup artistry? Even if you don't think that PUA should be avoided for its mind-killing properties, shouldn't we at least give lukeprog the benefit of the doubt? If nothing else, there may be follow-up articles dealing with this.

Comment author: usedToPost 09 November 2011 08:43:46PM *  1 point [-]

you seem to take it as a given that PUA techniques are the only/best tool for pursuing the many forms of relationship mentioned in the article

I didn't say that, let me explicitly disclaim: PU works for hetero men who want to have relationships of any kind with attractive hetero/bi women.

If you are female and looking to have more success dating guys, then I make no claim to be an expert or give advice.