JoshuaZ comments on Rational Romantic Relationships, Part 1: Relationship Styles and Attraction Basics - Less Wrong

48 Post author: lukeprog 05 November 2011 11:06AM

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Comment author: JoshuaZ 11 November 2011 06:58:31AM *  -1 points [-]

That wasn't the point at all, as far as I can tell.

Yes, I think reasonable individuals can read the statement differently. I suspect that my reading was on the more negative end of the spectrum, and I do have to wonder what primed me to think of it, and I don't have a good explanation for that. That said, it doesn't seem like an unreasonable interpretation. It seems that the difficulty of reading what other humans mean in a text medium is really quite difficult. While this is a known fact, I apparently don't compensate for it as well as I should. That said, I suspect that I am very likely not the only person who read the comment in the way I read it.

Did you forget to update on the new information that was provided to you?

No. I did update, but see elsewhere in this subthread where I discussed the relevance of that remark.