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48 Post author: lukeprog 05 November 2011 11:06AM

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Comment author: [deleted] 13 November 2011 03:26:10AM 7 points [-]

If a man is temperamentally in the not-dominant to submissive range, would looking for a compatible dominant woman be a good strategy?

There are many more submissive men than there are dominant women. On top of that, in the poly community I seem to have noticed a pattern where dominant women end up primaries with even more dominant men (with both taking more submissive people as secondaries, etc).

So the prospects for a submissive male can be slim.